4-2 PERSONAL STAND
After having collected information's from different novels and
people point's view about families' conflicts in love affairs I saw that
conflicts are the necessary evil we can avoid it. It helps sometimes to resolve
problems between people, families while living in war, misunderstanding but I
think people mustn't still live in conflicts by focusing on the past. From the
all collected information's family conflicts and the husband's choice to their
girls are responsible from the impossible love between the lovers .That's we
call forced marriage and this is banished by the law.
After the different analysis made on the topic, the fact to
choose a husband to your girl or let her choose herself, I think the good way
is to let her makes her choice because it's question of her future, fate. The
fact to choose her husband is to live according to tradition that's bad
because some of the principles that tradition requires is the opposite of what
we are living today.
However, after making her choice it's good to give her some
tips, or guide her from time to time so that she maintains her marital family
Good. If she falls it's mean that you failed also. So Parents and children must
sit together and discuss when it concerns their children future in order to
reduce conflict in families'
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